"Guard your heart bro/sis."
This is what most Christian teenagers tell each other nowadays when it comes to talking about their "crushes" and the like. Where does this phrase come from anyway?
"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." Proverbs 4:23
What do you mean by guarding your heart? It means that you should watch over what you "feel".
This concept of guarding your heart is a popular phrase emotional purity. But what is emotional purity? What is purity? Let's dig deeper from the roots so we can understand what these things actually mean.
This concept of guarding your heart is a popular phrase emotional purity. But what is emotional purity? What is purity? Let's dig deeper from the roots so we can understand what these things actually mean.
Purity.
People usually describe purity as "innocence","without blemish", or "clean". These are true synonyms to purity but these are by the dictionary definitions. What is biblical purity? Now even biblical purity is perceived to have lots of definitions as well. People usually connect it with virginity,which to some extent is biblically true, but we should know what purity really means. Purity means holiness, righteous, and yes, it also means that it is without blemish; without blemish means perfection. So how do you know if you're pure? We aren't. We are all like lambs with blemish because all of us are sinful beings. But we were made righteous before God through Jesus Christ.
People usually describe purity as "innocence","without blemish", or "clean". These are true synonyms to purity but these are by the dictionary definitions. What is biblical purity? Now even biblical purity is perceived to have lots of definitions as well. People usually connect it with virginity,which to some extent is biblically true, but we should know what purity really means. Purity means holiness, righteous, and yes, it also means that it is without blemish; without blemish means perfection. So how do you know if you're pure? We aren't. We are all like lambs with blemish because all of us are sinful beings. But we were made righteous before God through Jesus Christ.
"God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God." 2 Corinthians 5:21
How do we become pure?= How do we pursue purity?
Purity= Jesus
Therefore, How do we become pure?= We pursue Jesus
We pursue Jesus by pursuing Christ-likeness.
Emotional purity.
Now what is emotional purity? It's keeping yourself from any "emotional" thoughts and feelings that displeases God. How do you know if your thoughts and feelings displeases God? Well you need to know Him. You get to know what kind of author the author is by reading his book. In the same way, you need to read the Bible to get to know God, the Author of our life.
One of the things which involves emotions and displeases God is lust. Lust is a sexual desire outside the boundaries that God has made. So if lust is an "enemy" of emotional purity, then how do you know if you lust?
Now what is emotional purity? It's keeping yourself from any "emotional" thoughts and feelings that displeases God. How do you know if your thoughts and feelings displeases God? Well you need to know Him. You get to know what kind of author the author is by reading his book. In the same way, you need to read the Bible to get to know God, the Author of our life.
One of the things which involves emotions and displeases God is lust. Lust is a sexual desire outside the boundaries that God has made. So if lust is an "enemy" of emotional purity, then how do you know if you lust?
"But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Matthew 5:28
Even looking at someone lustfully means that you have already committed adultery, an act of impurity. But the opposite of emotional purity is not only confined with lust. I mentioned that emotional "thoughts" are part of emotional purity as well.
Connecting it all together. In my recent post regarding emotions ["Emotions and Feelings are the Same, Right?"], I mentioned about the thalamus, a part of your brain which is responsible for your emotions, motivation, behavior, and the like. This is what you actually call "heart" with regards to emotions. Now since it is part of the brain, those emotions usually affect your thoughts as well. You see, when you dwell on your emotions you generate feelings. You dwell on your feelings because you thought about it. And you continue thinking and feeling at the same time which leads you to overthinking. Overthinking then affects your actions and your actions affect your behavior.
Learning nugget. To conclude, guarding your heart means that we guard ourselves from the fleshly desires that we have. Remember, it is human to have those desires and it isn't sinful to be tempted. BUT, what you do with those temptations, how you respond to those desires, does not negate the fact that you will still reap the consequences of your actions. All actions have consequences so guard your actions.
Life Nugget.
"I can't"-Rev. Edmund Chan
"I can't"-Rev. Edmund Chan
But actually, I've learned in time that we just can't guard our hearts. We are just that weak and vulnerable to sin. This is why we need to surrender ourselves to God because we just can't...but HE CAN. But of course we need to do our part as well. Let me end this post with this verse.
“And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, THINK ON THESE THINGS. What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me—practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you.” Philippians 4:7-10
Let God guard your heart.
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